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ARKGROUP (Adults Relating to Kids)
formerly The Children's
Center for Self-Esteem ARK 'N ACTION
December 2009
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In this
issue:
-- Your Generosity Will Make a Real Difference
-- Teaching Children To Give
-- If the World had 100 People...
-- A Teacher's Plea to Parents
-- Musings From Bill: An Educated Work Force
Merry Christmas to you from the ARK Family. Glenn, Jan, Omega, Quintina, and I wish you the merriest of Christmas' and a happy, joy-filled New Year. Your actions help grow our children's perception that "they live in a
world safe with your care for their dreams, wishes and hopes." Your
unconditional love and caring are Christmas gifts for the
season. I am thankful and humbled this Christmas by your loving presence in our
ARK Family. Your intentional belief and faith in our children is creating
a world of creative, imaginative, and caring children. You are making a
difference. "Our nation's most valuable natural resources are the minds of our children." (Walt Disney) | |
Your Generosity Will Make a Real Difference ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Over the
years, many of you have shared your resources to make sure that the ARK
Program is in as many schools, churches, juvenile justice programs,
community centers, and prisons as possible. Each gift is significant and
is deeply appreciated.You have shared in the past, and we would like to offer you the opportunity to continue to exercise your spirit of generosity and compassion during this holiday season through a contribution to the ARKGroup. A memorial gift to ARK is a great way to remember a deceased friend or relative during this Christmas season. A gift in honor of a co-worker, a grandchild, or a teacher is a gift that will "keep on giving" as we use those monies to better the lives of children. A year-end gift to ARK--offered simply because you believe in our mission-- will have a wonderfully significant impact. If your gift is memory or in honor of a loved one, please include the address where we can send an acknowlegement of your gift. Since the ARKGroup is a 501(c)(3), non-profit organization, all of
gifts are tax deductible. Checks can be made out to "The ARKGroup" and
sent to our Houston office (2611 FM 1960W, Suite H-201, Houston, TX 77068)
or our Dallas office (2215 Canada Dr., Dallas, TX 75212). "This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day to use as you will. You can waste it or use it for good. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; in its place is something you left behind...let it be something good." (Anonymous) | |
Teaching Children To Give ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The following article appeared in "Great
Schools."Sharing the experience of giving can be the most rewarding present you can give your child during this holiday season. It can be tough to teach children the value of giving in a season when they're surrounded by messages about the value of getting. Here are five ways to start. 1. Start small when the kids are young. Your young child might be happy to help bake cookies for a friend but end up wanting to keep the gift for herself. Plan for this by baking enough cookies to keep and enough to give. Young children need help in learning to share. 2. Teach your child that he doesn't need money to give. Help your child make gift certificates good for "one free car wash" or "breakfast in bed" that he can give to others in the family. 3. Involve your child in selecting the gift. You may think that donating to cancer research is important, but your child who is an animal lover may be more interested in making sure the dogs at the humane society have an extra treat at the holidays. Help her find a way to give the gift she feels is important. 4. Be a role model. Volunteer your family's time at a soup kitchen or senior center. Gather small-size toiletries, such as toothpaste and shampoo, and pack them in decorated gift bags to take to a homeless shelter. Ask your child if he'll help you baby-sit for a neighbor's toddler so she can do her shopping or help you rake the leaves for an elderly friend. 5. Personalize giving. It's faster for busy parents to write a check to a charity, but it has little impact on a child who can't see where the money is going or imagine the people who benefit. Delivering canned goods to a food bank is more meaningful than dropping a check in the mail. Your family could "adopt" a needy family through a community organization, choose the gifts, and wrap them. Giving helps children to feel that they are generous and caring and builds their self-concept. It helps them to realize that their actions make a difference. And here's the good news: giving is addictive. Children who give grow up to be adults who give. Teaching your kids to give is a gift that will grace them for a lifetime. "Role modeling is the most basic responsibility of parents. They are handing out life scripts to their children, scripts that in all likelihood will be acted out for much of the rest of the children's lives." Stephen Covey Share with us your suggestions of hope and encouragement, and we will pass them on to others. | |
If the World had 100 People... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Categorizing the world into 100 people:
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A Teacher's Plea to Parents ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This letter from Annalisa Hardy, a teacher in
Galveston, Texas, appeared recently in the Op-Ed section of the Houston
Chronicle (November 27, 2009). After pointing to a nearly 50% loss rate of
new teachers within five years, she says that a major cause of teacher
dropout is the lack of support and involvement of parents in their
children's education.
We, the tired teachers of America, have first-hand experience of the
pressing problem that our children do not value education, because so many
parents don't value education. All too often, our children do not receive
meaningful parenting at home. Do you agree with Ms. Hardy? Is the lack of parental support one of the major factors that prevents our schools from functioning as they should? Let us hear what you think. | |
Musings From Bill: An Educated Work Force ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ My thanks to John T Chambers,Chairman and CEO CISCO Systems, Inc., Randall L. Stephenson President and CEO of AT&T, William D. Green,Chairman and CEO Accenture and Joe Sestak U.S. Representative (D. Pa.), for their thoughts and comments regarding this musing. An educated work force is the nation's human capital, and it is seeing
a lot of sub-prime times these days. Graduation rates are dismal in many
school districts. Teachers are bailing out of the profession. Parents are
frantic over their inability to relate to their kids. Chancellors are
clashing with unions. Superintendents are under the gun. Businesses often
don't find the talent they are searching for. And student performances
pale in comparison to the competition abroad.
Just musing...
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Contact Information ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
email: wduffyark@sbcglobal.net
phone: 281-537-1301
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