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ARKGROUP (Adults Relating to Kids)
Publishing from Lone Star
College University Park, SH 249, Houston, Texas ARK 'N ACTION March
2011
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In this
issue:
-- Human Talents That Are Deeper Than Just I.Q.
-- We Continue to Appreciate your Help
-- Phil Mickelson: The Power of Unconditional Love
-- Musings From Bill: The World of Seven Billion People
Welcome to ARK's March
Newsletter. Glenn, Jan, Omega, Quintina, and I thank you for your
commitment to the children in your lives, in your homes, in your
neighborhoods, in your schools, in your churches and within your larger
communities. "The size of your heart is the size of your life, for out of your heart
comes the kind of your life, the way you reach out to the world all around
is the first in your heart to be found. So if in your heart there is
plenty of room for love and compassion to come into bloom; their fragrance
flows out through all that you do, healing the hurt and making new. The
ones who this know have helped all of us grow, as those who spread light
to God's great delight, dispelling the dark and then feeling the heart
'till each one becomes God's daughter, son." | |
Human Talents That Are Deeper Than Just I.Q. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Our thanks to David Brooks, New York Times,
NYTimes.com, for his recent article on "The New Humanism".
David Brooks writes, "Over the past few decades we have tended to define human capital (worth) in a narrow way, emphasizing I.Q., degrees, and professional skills. These are measurements, but obviously, new research illustrates a range of deeper talents, which have a greater span than reason and emotion and provide greater understanding for us as parents and educators as we help others to grow each day with our care. The talents in all us beyond I.Q., which forms us and helps to make us
who we are include, but will probably be expanded in the future as we
continue to understand the human condition: In the ARKGroup family, we profess the power in all of us to share unconditional love and care to others, especially children, as our experience of what it means to be human. Our research and common sense continues to show us that a child grows to adulthood when we commit ourselves to be in their lives. When we separate the person from the behavior and care for the person as the adult in their lives, the future is changed. . | |
We Continue to Appreciate your Help ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ We are amazed
at the new opportunities God has provided us where ARK for Parents and ARK
for Teachers can be utilized to serve the needs of poor children and their
families. Equally exciting are some incredible opportunities for us to
place ARK in additional venues in 2011. Your help, however, is
needed!In both Houston and Dallas, the expansion of our ARK programming depends upon our finding the funding to accommodate these wonderful opportunities. For example, we need to print additional copies of our ARK for Parents Manuals ($22,000 per printing) and ARK for Teens Manuals ($15,000 per printing). We have elementary schools that want to install ARK for Parents on their campuses ($6,000 apiece). Additionally, the Alliance of Community Ministries (ACAM) in Houston, which is composed of fourteen assistance ministries across Houston, is very interested in providing ARK for Parents to their clients. One of them, the Houston Northwest Assistance Ministry (NAM) has been employing the ARK for Parents Program for the past five years with great success. The other thirteen assistance ministries would like to follow suit. The cost is $3,800 per site. These endeavors will enable us to reach countless children and their families and teachers across those two metropolitan areas. Financial gifts--large and small--will enable us to actualize these opportunities. WE ARE IN NEED OF YOUR HELP! For those who are able to make these ministry opportunities possible through your contributions, THANK YOU! And to ALL of you, thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers. Since the ARKGroup is a 501(c)(3), non-profit organization, all
gifts are tax-deductible. Be sure that your checks have are dated December
31 or earlier in order for you to receive 2010 tax credit. "Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all." Aristotle | |
Phil Mickelson: The Power of Unconditional Love ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Phil Mickelson is considered to be one of the best
golfers ever to play the game. He is known for his brilliant shot-making
and also for his taking risks in trying very difficult shots instead of
"playing it safe." Sometimes, those risky shots toward the end of a golf
tournament enable him to be the winner. Other times, those risks cost him
the tournament. One such case was the 2006 U.S. Open played at Winged
Foot.Phil stood on the tee box at the final hole of the tournament, holding a one-shot lead. All he needed was to par the hole in order to win. He proceeded to hit a series of terrible shots and finished with a double-bogie, losing one of the most prestigious tournaments in professional golf by one stroke. It was a staggering loss for Mickelson. He had practiced for months in hopes of winning this particular event. Later that day, Phil was snuggling with his daughter Amanda, and she asked, "Are you okay, Dad?" He replied, "Well, I'm a little disappointed. This was a tournament I dreamt of winning as a kid, and I haven't yet." His daughter said, "Well, second is pretty good, Dad. Can I get you a piece of pizza?" Reflecting back on that moment, Mickelson says, "It was kind of a bigger-picture perspective." Two days later, Phil took his family to Disneyland where he would be the focus of attention of tens of thousands of people, many of whom would be aware that he had just "blown" a major golf tournament. Mickelson's mindset was, "It's time to move on. I know my wife loves me. I know my kids love me. I can't wait to tee it up next time." Phil says, "My family has reduced the effect of my career on my self-esteem. When I'm with them, they make me feel special regardless of how I play." That's the power of unconditional love! It is the key to resilience and high self-esteem! The ARKGroup has been especially thankful for it's Dallas Initiatives and for the wonderful partnerships working in West Dallas. Be sure to check out the link below for a video on ARK's progress and programs check this exciting video about ARK enter the passwork ARK11 when requested | |
Musings From Bill: The World of Seven Billion People ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I strongly encourage to pick up a copy of March's
National Geographic, or stop at your local library to read it. It
is full of information about our larger world as we move to a population
of seven billion people in 2011.
As discussed in the articles:" the percentage of the earth's population
with a decent standard of living is higher than it has ever been.
Inequality still abounds: Two percent of the population owns 50% of the
wealth. But the gap between world's poorest and richest is now filled by a
broad middle-income group that scarcely existed on a global scale 50 years
ago. More children live to be adults, and fewer adults die of preventable
diseases. The birthrate is falling". Yet before the era of population
growth ends in 2050, Earth will hold more than nine billion
people. Just musing... As we close this newsletter for March, we reflect on our greater family in Japan and elsewhere throughout the world where lives and societies are in turmoil. May our hearts and prayers be with them. Take a look at the ARK website for full details on programs at www.thearkgroup.org | |
Contact Information ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
email: wduffyark@sbcglobal.net
phone: 281-537-1301 (Houston) and 817-692-1929 (Dallas/Fort Worth)
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