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Lonestar College,  University Park

Houston, Texas 77070





We're Glad you've chosen to read and share your ideas with us.

GlennBC

Fall Semester News from ARK
October 2011, Highlites
Cool breezes are here and the children, students and neighborhoods on my block, I know yours, have picked up their steps as they runoff to school each morning. Each day picks up our spirits as we see the future thinkers and doers march on. 
 
Glenn, Jan, Omega, Peggy and Quintina are thankful for this promise of educational excitement we have seen in you. Our hopes and dreams are with you as you take all those you love into your care, as parents, teachers, volunteers, administrators, pastors, neighbors and "intentional adults" in the lives of kids.
 

 


Graduation

     

What we see in our minds and talk about in our self-talk happens. We are picturing this May even now.

 

 ARK and YOU - The Future -  Through our Children and Students

grandmother with kids 

 

Houston Endowment ARK for Parents Project Spring ISD and AVANCE Houston

Rockwell Fund Aldine/Spring ISD Drop-Out Initiative

 

 Aldine Teacher

 

 

Nereida Gomez goes the extra mile to make the ARK for Parents experience at Northgate Elementary in Spring ISD a success. Her creativity, desire and commitment to bring unconditional love into the lives of parents and their children have sparked parental involvement at Northgate. Nereida created a rubric for use during the group to help remind everyone of the process and guidelines. Parents at Northgate are encouraged and grateful to find a venue in the public school system, where they are valued for "who they are rather than for what they do".  ARK supports the goal at Northgate to provide an educational environment enriched with the principles of unconditional love. As a result, students, parents and teachers establish a lifelong relationship of mutual trust, understanding and growth.

  

  Spring Teacher

 

Lead Facilitator, Sherri Poole at Hambrick Middle School in Aldine ISD has made an extraordinary impact in the lives of children and is now carrying her vivacious attitude into the everyday problems and issues that she and her peers encounter. Teachers at Hambrick are setting the bar for other schools across the district and region. They are demonstrating their commitment to student success by exploring new methods and venues of relating to their students through participation in the ARK for Teachers process group. Excitement is so high at Hambrick, that teachers, who have not yet been included in the six year project, are anxious to begin ARK groups with their peers. Students and teachers alike are beginning to experience the beneficial results of focusing on unconditionally loving relationships, as a vital part of the educational process. The drop-out prevention program is well underway to achieve its desired results.

 

 

 

 

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What Are Lessons in Character - ? 
 
"Character Strengths and Virtues: A Handbook and Classifications" Seligman and Peterson weighing in at 800 pages and three and a half pounds.
 
We continue a discussion of this book through it's authors who have settled in on 24 character strengths common to all cultures and eras.  The list includes some of of the traditional strengths,  like bravery, citizenship, fairness, wisdom and integrity. Others on the list veer into the emotional realm, like love, humor, zest and appreciation of beauty.  Other items included on the list include ones concerned with the day-to-day human interactions, like social intelligence (the ability to recognize interpersonal dynamics and adapt quickly to different social situations), kindness, self-regulation and gratitude.
 
Kindness, self-regulation and gratitude certainly appear most often in the examples I see educators addressing in their school settings as high on their lists of important life skills they hope to implant by the practice of their school atmosphere in their students.  In these times of mass consumersism, consumption and me-ness, ... kindness, and thankfulness seems to be a secret to the "beginnings" of our students and children seeing themselves as not the center of the universe and the opportunity for them to begin the journey of understanding of our ultimate humanity in living a life for the others who share our community space.
These characteristics offer a chance for true learning to take place with  critical thinking skills nourished in an environment of care and appreciation for the experience of education that can be applied to a better world.
 
I know many of you reading these thoughts have rich experiences in truths. We a the ARKGroup would love to hear about your lives and joys.

Bill  -  e-mail me
wduffyark@sbcglobal.net 

  

The ThinkerJust Musing -
Switching On Creativity

My thanks to Sue Shellenbarger, Wall Street Journal, Tuesday, September 27, 2011 for the following thoughts.
 
Creativity has long been admired and cherished by most of us and highly sought after as an aspiration for adding significance to our lives. Dean Keith Simonton, a psychology professor at the University of California, Davis has cataloged creativity from the work of many studies including his own with the following findings.
 
We have been told by the experts that in the
childhood development arenas being last in the family, with moderate family conflict and diverse role models can file original thinking. Contrarily, being first born means we will think in more congenital ways and that too much family conflict can cause a reluctance to take risks.
 
From the individual traits specialists, we have been taught that being aggressive, egocentric or antisocial makes it easier to provide ideas in solitude or challenge convention. On the negative side, resistance to change or a readiness to give up easily can derail new initiatives.
 
 
The cognitive career environment  gurus believe freedom to take risks, do a variety of assignments and work on multiple projects at once can spark flexible thinking.  The offset is pressure to play it safe or close off alternative perspectives can shut down creativity.
 
 
The cognitive processes pundits think that taking time off and letting ideas incubate can allow original ideas too take root. Working doggedly on a goal rather than putting it on there back burner for a while can choke off fresh approaches.
 
 
Finally, the society/culture thinkers support the belief that civil conflict, political fragmentation and cultural diversity can trigger divergent thinking. However, war and anarchy disrupt work on new ideas.
 
 
I suspect "failure" and how we deal deal with failure plays an even more significant role in our children's, and for that matter our peers, opportunity for innovations and "creativity" in the daily lives we live.
 
If we truly separate our children and students, our neighbors and our relatives from their behaviors and always provide a caring environment, I think we set up a process that encourages individuals trying things that they deduce are worth trying and when they fail, it allows them to be open about it and to learn from their failures and that is a good thing about living a life well lived. "Switching on Creativity" is thing that brings us a rich experience of critical thinking and making a difference for the "good" in our daily lives.
 
 
Let's encourage our students and children to try and to fail and to learn and to grow and to become the future we dream about.
 
 
 
Just Musing
Bill

 

 Check Dr. Robert Brooks for excellent articles on the Resilient Child 

 

 

In This Issue
Thanks
ARK and You AVANCE & Aldine ISD
West Dallas
What Are Lessons in Characers Can Do To Help
Just Musing
What Is Happening in Your Neighborhood
Message
Teen Boy eating
Did you know that we have launched three Major Initatives in Dallas and Houston.

The West Dallas Initative collaborating with, West Dallas Community Collaborative for Schools, Jobs and Housing,
Ministery Partners, Dallas ISD, Local Churches and Community Centers and the Dallas Housing Authority.

The Dallas Project has been made possible by the generosity of  the Morningstar Foundation, First Rate, The Hawg Foundation and The Reese- Jones Foundation.

The  Spring ISD Elementary School Parent Project in Spring, Texas.

 

The Aldine and Spring ISD Intermediate School Drop out Prevention Iniative using the ARK for Teachers Programs in Spring and Houston, Texas.

The AVANCE Pre-K, HeadStart Parentsand Teacher Programs and the ACAM -Assistance Mnistries Parents Program

These Houston and Spring Projects have been made possible by the generosity of the  Houston Endowment Foundation, The Robert and Janice McNair Foundation and the Rockwell Fund. 

We are especially thankful to all of these Wonderful  Foundations for their support of Public Schools and these Educational Initiatives for Students and Teachers.

 

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Thank you for joining our conversation again this month. We would love to hear from you.
Tell us about" What is Happening in Your Neighborhood" and "In your School" so we can share your experiences with others who about this exciting journey - preparing our kids for a promising future.
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William Duffy
National Executive Director
The ARKGROUP
20515 SH 249
Lonestar College at University Park
281-537-1301
 

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