|
|
|
News
from The ARKGroup
(Adults
Relating to Kids)
November's
ARK N' ACTION
Coming
to you from:
Lonestar
College, University Park
Houston, Texas
77070
We're Glad you've
chosen to read and share your ideas with
us. | |
| |
Fall Semester News from ARK |
October 2011,
Highlites | |
|
|
|
Cool breezes are here
and the children, students and neighborhoods on my block, I
know yours, have picked up their steps as they runoff to
school each morning. Each day picks up our spirits as we see
the future thinkers and doers march on.
Glenn, Jan, Omega,
Peggy and Quintina are thankful for this promise of
educational excitement we have seen in you. Our hopes and
dreams are with you as you take all those you love into your
care, as parents, teachers, volunteers, administrators,
pastors, neighbors and "intentional adults" in the lives of
kids.
| |
|
|
|
|
What we see in our minds and talk
about in our self-talk happens. We are picturing this May even
now.
|
|
ARK and YOU - The Future -
Through our Children and Students |
|
|
Houston
Endowment ARK for Parents Project Spring ISD and AVANCE
Houston
Rockwell
Fund Aldine/Spring ISD Drop-Out Initiative

Nereida Gomez goes the extra mile to
make the ARK for Parents experience at Northgate Elementary in
Spring ISD a success. Her creativity, desire and commitment to
bring unconditional love into the lives of parents and their
children have sparked parental involvement at Northgate.
Nereida created a rubric for use during the group to help
remind everyone of the process and guidelines. Parents at
Northgate are encouraged and grateful to find a venue in the
public school system, where they are valued for "who they are
rather than for what they do". ARK supports the goal at
Northgate to provide an educational environment enriched with
the principles of unconditional love. As a result, students,
parents and teachers establish a lifelong relationship of
mutual trust, understanding and growth.

Lead Facilitator, Sherri Poole at
Hambrick Middle School in Aldine ISD has made an extraordinary
impact in the lives of children and is now carrying her
vivacious attitude into the everyday problems and issues that
she and her peers encounter. Teachers at Hambrick are setting
the bar for other schools across the district and region. They
are demonstrating their commitment to student success by
exploring new methods and venues of relating to their students
through participation in the ARK for Teachers process group.
Excitement is so high at Hambrick, that teachers, who have not
yet been included in the six year project, are anxious to
begin ARK groups with their peers. Students and teachers alike
are beginning to experience the beneficial results of focusing
on unconditionally loving relationships, as a vital part of
the educational process. The drop-out prevention program is
well underway to achieve its desired results.
|
| SafeKids.com Online Safety & Civility
ANTI-BULLYING RESOURCES FOR
PARENTS
Check out these resources
|
|
|
Check out
these videos on The
ARKGroup
What Are
Lessons in Character - ?
"Character
Strengths and Virtues: A Handbook and Classifications"
Seligman and Peterson weighing in at 800 pages
and three and a half pounds.
We continue a
discussion of this book through it's authors who have settled
in on 24 character strengths common to all cultures and eras.
The list includes some of of the traditional strengths,
like bravery, citizenship, fairness, wisdom and
integrity. Others on the list veer into the emotional realm,
like love, humor, zest and appreciation of beauty. Other
items included on the list include ones concerned with the
day-to-day human interactions, like social intelligence (the
ability to recognize interpersonal dynamics and adapt quickly
to different social situations), kindness, self-regulation and
gratitude.
Kindness,
self-regulation and gratitude certainly appear most often in
the examples I see educators addressing in their school
settings as high on their lists of important life skills they
hope to implant by the practice of their school atmosphere in
their students. In these times of mass consumersism,
consumption and me-ness, ... kindness, and thankfulness seems
to be a secret to the "beginnings" of our students and
children seeing themselves as not the center of the universe
and the opportunity for them to begin the journey of
understanding of our ultimate humanity in living a life for
the others who share our community space.
These characteristics
offer a chance for true learning to take place with
critical thinking skills nourished in an environment of
care and appreciation for the experience of education that can
be applied to a better world.
I know many of you
reading these thoughts have rich experiences in truths. We a
the ARKGroup would love to hear about your lives and
joys.
Bill -
e-mail me
wduffyark@sbcglobal.net
|
Just Musing - Switching On
Creativity
My
thanks to Sue Shellenbarger, Wall Street Journal, Tuesday,
September 27, 2011 for the following thoughts.
Creativity has long been admired
and cherished by most of us and highly sought after as an
aspiration for adding significance to our lives. Dean Keith
Simonton, a psychology professor at the University of
California, Davis has cataloged creativity from the work of
many studies including his own with the following findings.
We
have been told by the experts that in the
childhood
development arenas being last in the family, with
moderate family conflict and diverse role models can file
original thinking. Contrarily, being first born means we will
think in more congenital ways and that too much family
conflict can cause a reluctance to take risks.
From
the individual
traits specialists, we have been taught that
being aggressive, egocentric or antisocial makes it easier to
provide ideas in solitude or challenge convention. On the
negative side, resistance to change or a readiness to give up
easily can derail new initiatives.
The cognitive career
environment gurus believe freedom to take
risks, do a variety of assignments and work on multiple
projects at once can spark flexible thinking. The
offset is pressure to play it safe or close off alternative
perspectives can shut down creativity.
The cognitive
processes pundits think that taking time off and
letting ideas incubate can allow original ideas too take root.
Working doggedly on a goal rather than putting it on there
back burner for a while can choke off fresh
approaches.
Finally, the society/culture thinkers support the belief that civil
conflict, political fragmentation and cultural diversity can
trigger divergent thinking. However, war and anarchy disrupt
work on new ideas.
I
suspect "failure" and how we deal deal with failure plays an
even more significant role in our children's, and for that
matter our peers, opportunity for innovations and "creativity"
in the daily lives we live.
If we
truly separate our children and students, our neighbors and
our relatives from their behaviors and always provide a caring
environment, I think we set up a process that encourages
individuals trying things that they deduce are worth trying
and when they fail, it allows them to be open about it and to
learn from their failures and that is a good thing about
living a life well lived. "Switching on Creativity" is thing
that brings us a rich experience of critical thinking and
making a difference for the "good" in our daily
lives.
Let's
encourage our students and children to try and to fail and to
learn and to grow and to become the future we dream
about.
Just
Musing,
Bill
Check Dr.
Robert Brooks for excellent articles on the Resilient
Child
| |
|
|
Message 
Did you know that we have
launched three Major Initatives in Dallas and
Houston.
The West Dallas Initative collaborating with, West Dallas
Community Collaborative for Schools,
Jobs and Housing, Ministery Partners, Dallas
ISD, Local Churches and Community Centers and the Dallas
Housing Authority.
The Dallas Project has been made possible by the
generosity of the Morningstar Foundation, First Rate, The
Hawg Foundation and The Reese- Jones
Foundation.
The Spring ISD Elementary School Parent Project in
Spring, Texas.
The Aldine and Spring ISD Intermediate School Drop out
Prevention Iniative using the ARK for Teachers Programs in
Spring and Houston, Texas.
The AVANCE Pre-K, HeadStart Parentsand Teacher Programs
and the ACAM -Assistance Mnistries Parents Program
These Houston and Spring Projects have been made possible
by the generosity of the Houston Endowment Foundation, The
Robert and Janice McNair Foundation and the Rockwell Fund.
We are especially thankful to all of these Wonderful
Foundations for their support of Public Schools and
these Educational Initiatives for Students and
Teachers.
|
|
| Upcoming Events |
Fall Parenting Classes Join us by calling
281-537-1301 20515 SH 249 Lonestar College, at
University Place Houston, Texas 77070 |
| Closing Headline |
Thank you for
joining our conversation again this month. We would love to
hear from you. Tell us about" What is Happening in Your
Neighborhood" and "In your School" so we can share your
experiences with others who about this exciting journey -
preparing our kids for a promising future. Call us today or
drop us an e-mail at
wduffy@thearkgroup.org. |
| Contact Information |
William Duffy National Executive
Director The ARKGROUP 20515 SH 249 Lonestar College
at University Park 281-537-1301 | |
| |
|
Call us today to order ARK
Programs, Manuals, DVDs and Processes.
We have a new 4 course with
six lessons each Parent Program we know will bring
you many years of growth and happiness.
AND
A new ARK for Teachers
Middle and High School Curriculum which is Impacting
School Environments today for tomorrow.
|
| | | |