Children's Center for Self-esteem (The ARKGROUP)

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 (Adults Relating to Kids)

 September's ARK N' ACTION


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Lonestar College,  University Park

Houston, Texas 77070





We're Glad you've chosen to read and share your ideas with us.

GlennBC

Summer News from ARK
August 2011

The School doors have opened anew, Kids are walking by our homes on the way to neighborhood schools, buses are buzzing by chocked full of smiling and expectant faces, and we are renewed with the dreams for "the future of the world" in our students, our neighbors children  and our own children. 
Glenn, Jan, Omega, Peggy and Quintina are thankful for this promise of faith and education. Our hopes and dreams are with you as you take all those you love into your care, as parents, teachers, volunteers, administrators, pastors, neighbors and "intentional adults" in the lives of kids.
The weather is hot in Texas and our hearts across this great nation are warmed by the joy of living in this great land of caring people.


 


Graduation

     

This is our vision, this September of our May expectations.

 

 ARK and YOU - A Bright Future Growing    Through our Children and Students

grandmother with kids 

 

Houston Endowment ARK for Parents Project

Rockwell Fund Aldine/Spring ISD Drop-Out Initiative

 

Major Elementary and Northgate Crossing Elementary both of Spring ISD hosted an ARK for Parents, facilitator training for a total of fifty-two teachers during the month of August. Teachers offered to spend an eight hour day of their personal time to become proficient at facilitating ARK Parent Groups on their campus. These teachers experienced a transformative day that was both encouraging and enlightening. As one educator said, "I thought we were just going to be practicing what we saw on a video taped lesson. I didn't realize that the process would actually change my own thinking. As a parent myself, I know the parents of my students will benefit from this program. It is unlike anything that I have ever experienced." Another teacher comments, "Our school has always offered academic support for parents but ARK takes it a step further by offering support for the emotional well being of the parents and family. In fact, ARK is beneficial for all involved, including the facilitators."

 

The ARKGroup has been invited to speak to over one thousand Aldine teachers, counselors and administrators as they collaborate and formulate plans to begin the Drop-Out Initiative funded by Rockwell. A select group of middle school teachers in both Aldine ISD and Spring ISD will participate in one of four scheduled training dates in September. After becoming certified, these leaders will bring back the process to their individual campuses and teams. Teachers are excited about connecting and collaborating with one another to develop a stronger more supportive relationship with students, parents and peers.

 

Aldine ISD Transportation Department sets the benchmark for other districts by providing ARK for Bus Drivers as part of their extra-miler project. The ARKGroup provided staff development for 700 bus drivers and other transportation personnel. Thirteen bus drivers are currently in the process of becoming ARK facilitators for their peers. The drivers are amazed at how the process has already impacted their ability to problem solve and peer mentor.

 

AVANCE Head Start Centers continue to offer ARK support for parents and teachers. Sixty new teachers will be trained during the month of September to provide both ARK for Parents and ARK for Teachers groups in their school communities. Clearly, great things are happening because of their commitment to educating the whole child and family.

 

 

 

   

 Nahum Calixto and his Children

Mr. Nahum Calixto is a father success story. Nahum is an AVANCE parent who also received ARK for Parents training.  He was among the only Spanish-speaking parent group ever trained as an ARK facilitator and was the only dad in attendance.

Nahum was referred to AVANCE-Dallas as a referral from the Texas Department of Famil and Protective Services after being caught driving with alcohol while his children were in the car.

He has greatly benefited from the many AVANCE classes he has attended and credits these classes for having taught him the importance of spending time with his children, talking to them, helping with homework and planning family activities.

The ARKGroup was thrilled when the AVANCE coordinator of the Pleasant Grove quadrant  invited the ARK staff to provide ARK for Parents training to this AVANCE parent group.  The ARK parent program focused on the relationship between parent and child, based on unconditional love, as the foundation of a child's positive self-concept and the thrust toward a successful personal, academic, social, professional and spiritual life.

 Nahum's desire is to lead an ARK for Parents group in his church.  He wishes to connect the lessons learned from both AVANCE and ARK for the benefit of other parents.

He is now able to share his convictions and experiences with others who seek the avenue to successful parenting and successful children.

 

The ARK staff salutes Nahum Calixto and is thankful  for his commitment.  

 

Check out these videos on The ARKGroup                                         


Kids reading and writing 

 

What Kindergartners'Parents Can Do To Help 

Work on their self-esteem - Give your child lots of affirmations, lots of hugs and make sure they know each day as they go to school that you love them unconditionally.  Don't let them pick up on your anxiety.

Build a relationship with their Teachers - Let the teachers know that you want to help and support in the education and care of your child.

Ask open ended questions when your child gets home from school - "Tell me your most favorite thing that happened today". Make sure your child knows you expect them to do well and spend time letting  them go over their accomplishments. Help them with the things they are learning to do.

Look for red flags - If your child does not want to go to school, if it is hard to get them out of bed, spend some time exploring their feelings and challenges. When a child claims up, something is going on you will want to explore.

 

 

The ThinkerJust Musing -The Happiness Debate Continues   

My thanks to Nick Powdthavee, author of "The Happiness Equation" for some of these thoughts.  You should pick it up if your looking for an excellent read.

 

Our scholarly economists and psychologists have combined their efforts in recent years to show us the secrets of happiness. We continue to read studies and research projects which show that happiness determinants include the small effect of money, the great effect of marriage and friends and the massive impact of personality.  It has been my observation that the extremely good news of winning a lotto and the extreme sadness of a loss of a family member rarely affect happiness for more than several years. Happiness is a "state of the mind" and we all struggle to personally determine what "state of mind" means to us.
Then we have many studies that reflects on happiness as a determinant of success in job performance, marriage, relationships and future health. Likewise, as parents and teachers the  children in our lives are living within the  same framework and environment we present and they too reflect our attitudes on happiness as well as their own perspectives as they grow into adulthood.

One thing we should consider; the implications of our actions when we are  with our children and students determine a child's ability to experience happiness and possible their successful in school, work, family and in the world of communities.

You should read this book and draw your own conclusions.

I am grateful that Nick put his thoughts to paper and that you gave me a few minutes to reflect, if not you, who,and  if not now, when.  

 

   

 

Just Musing
Bill

 

 Check Dr. Robert Brooks for excellent articles on the Resilient Child 

 

 

In This Issue
Thanks
A Bright Future
Nahum Calixto
What Kindergarten Parents Can Do To Help
Just Musing
What Is Happening in Your Neighborhood
Message
Teen Boy eating
Did you know that we have launched three Major Initatives in Dallas and Houston.

The West Dallas Initative collaborating with, West Dallas Community Collaborative for Schools, Jobs and Housing,
Ministery Partners, Dallas ISD, Local Churches and Community Centers and the Dallas Housing Authority.

The Dallas Project has been made possible by the generosity of  the Morningstar Foundation and The Reese Jones Foundation.

The  Spring ISD Elementary School Parent Project in Spring, Texas.

 

The Aldine and Spring ISD Intermediate School Drop out Prevention Iniative using the ARK for Teachers Programs in Spring and Houston, Texas.

These Houston and Spring Projects have been made possible by the generosity of the  Houston Endowment Foundation and the Rockwell Fund. 

We are especially thankful to all of these Wonderful  Foundations for their support of Public Schools and these Educational Initiatives for Students and Teachers.

 

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